"How do you have a child without being terrified all the time?"

A Vision of Fire: A Novel - Gillian Anderson, Jeff Rovin

"'Well, that's the big secret to parenting, Ben.' Caitlin whispered.  'You are terrified all the time.  You get used to it.  It becomes part of the background.  Except for the times it stabs you through the heart.'"

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